~ 咱們的心声。。 fresh graduates feeling ~

5th August 2010, I graduated with Bachelor of Applied Science (Honours) majoring in Mathematical Modelling.
It is time to say goodbye to the comfortable and secure life within school walls.

Some of my friends chose to further study.
Some already started to work.
Some are still figuring their career path.

The uncertainty of the future really makes us lost of direction.

Too many paths to choose. Too many advices to listen to. Too many worries to keep in mind.

During this time, most of us, especially those who looking for job, are under pressure, feel lack of confident, confusing in making choices, feel so down and low, doubted with their own decisions.

What if I fail in the career I chose?
What if my decision leads me to a dead end?
What if I can’t manage to do my job well?
What if I don’t like my job or choices I made?

Indeed, there are too many worries…

For all those “what if”, my answer will be:

Do what you believe in, and go after your dreams.
Any choice u want to make, consider it well then step out and give your best shot!

Accept the failure.
If things goes wrong or bad, if it doesn’t work as what we imagined, then accept it.
Take up the responsible of making the wrong choices.
错误。这是年轻人的专利。最伟大的成就不是从没经历过跌倒，而是在跌倒之后再度站起来。

It is better to do something than worrying or thinking what the best is. While you are still worrying, the chance may just slip through. So, be brave to make choices.

Be flexible.
Ready to face changes every second.
Do not limit yourself.

Before I went to KL to work, dad told me this:
“If you cannot manage to do your job, felt unhappy or stress with your job or you don’t like your job, we can pay back the money to the company. You don’t need to force yourself to do it. There are many choices in this world.”

I was very touched to hear it.
Every time I think of his speech, I felt like crying.
I am so glad my dad put my feelings at first place rather than the money.

Since I am a grown-up, I learnt that there are many things that we don’t like to do it but yet we have to do it. I never list my current job as “forever”. In the future, I may step into other field as well. However, for current state, I want to do the best of me in this job.

“Don’t worry dad. I will try my best. I believe I can handle it.”
I will live the best out of me. Love you all always~

“To do a common thing, uncommonly well, brings success.” — Henry John Heinz